useless fights
- why do we fight about stuff that is not worth it?
- why are there people that don't listen and try to understand the other perspective?
- what do you do if you have a discussion with someone that doesn't open the eyes and see the obvious?
- what do you do if the situation is so screwed that it gets only worse the more you talk?
- what do you do if you give your best and others don't accept it, don't see it or cannot take it?
- what about if you have explained your situation 100times and they still don't understand what the heck that means for you, what kind of consequences that has?
hmmm....
funny, writing these lines makes me think of Boby:
Fight, fight for your rights!
and a recent experience as well:
I have managed other things - I won't give up - I think I know what is right - I know what I want and I just give my best in the hope anybody takes notice...
which brings up another question:
- why do we take something bad that is going on more important that something good?
- why do we get upset about one bad word if there are 10 good ones?
and on top of all:
- why is human being so strange?
posted by giogiovanni @ 5:43 AM
3 Comments:
At Friday, November 10, 2006 7:17:00 PM ,
Anonymous said...
Hi Gio!!!Well you know that all the people around the world have something especial...but sometimes is strange,too...Maybe there are persons that understand what happen in your head and in your heart but you know that maybe that kind of persons in a moment can forget it what's the meaning of the life...And I know that it's better talk to the others but we are humans and almost always prefer fight...Ok I hope that you feel very well and remember that I want the best for you, because you always want the best for me...
Your daughter,
Eli
At Friday, November 10, 2006 10:55:00 PM ,
sisterheart said...
think about:
everybody give us some plesure on its own way - the one by entering into a room; the other by leaving it ;-)
It takes part of life, to say and get icy-cold words, make difficult decisions, bitter disappointments, deep hurtings, incomprehensible missunderstandings and feel helplessness. BUT there's also part of life to earn of all this ugly moments (that you'll get a bit nearer to be perfect ;-)
but don't forget to enjoy life beside all this wise words! last but not least you asked why human being is so strange?
my answer: it's only as strange as you allow it to happen!
YOU'RE SIMPLY WONDERFUL and that's my greatest luck!
barbara
At Friday, November 10, 2006 11:27:00 PM ,
10 cents thinking machine :) said...
Questions I ask myself so often...
Here are my simplified 10 cents. (Very cheap- thus very simple :D )
* why do we fight about stuff that is not worth it?
- because somehow we hope its worth it in one way or the other...
* why are there people that don't listen and try to understand the other perspective?
- because they can't or don't want to. It's easier...
* what do you do if you have a discussion with someone that doesn't open the eyes and see the obvious?
- you keep on trying or you stop trying and just hope that one day they will. Cause what is obvious for you, isn't necessarily obvious for them, too. Different life experiences. Be happy it's obvious for you...
* what do you do if the situation is so screwed that it gets only worse the more you talk?
- you stop talking and try something else... Actions sometimes count more than talk...
* what do you do if you give your best and others don't accept it, don't see it or cannot take it?
- you yourself still know it's the best! And that's all that counts...
* what about if you have explained your situation 100times and they still don't understand what the heck that means for you, what kind of consequences that has?
- Maybe another approach, another perspective helps. Rather ask than explain...
Take care!
grüessli vo zh
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